Sin?
(For someone who said I never talk about sin)
What is sin?
When we think about sin, usually the first ideas that come to mind are things like the Ten Commandments, the seven deadly sins (lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy, and pride), and other obvious examples.
The thing is, sin isn’t limited to those great scarlet sins of commission.
Because sin isn’t about any specific list of “thou shalt nots.” Sin is really about the effect that something has on us.
I’m talking about what sin does. And what sin does is separate you and me from the One who loves us best. Sin gets between us and God. That is what makes something a sin.
The lists of “thou shalt nots” are part of that.
The Ten Commandments, pride, envy, all those things? Those are just universal problems that plague every single one of us.
The thing to know is that sin doesn’t stop with a list of “thou shalt nots.”
The truth about sin is much more subtle, and much more dangerous.
Because anything that can do the job for us, anything that is capable of getting between us and God? That is a sin, for us.
That’s why anger can be a sin. Because it can get between us and God.
That’s why resentment can be a sin. Because it can get between us and God.
That’s why fear can be a sin. Because it can get between us and God.
That’s why bitterness can be a sin. Because it can get between us and God.
That is how you and I have to look at it.
Because anything that is capable of separating you from God? That, for you, is a sin.
That’s true, no matter how small or harmless it may look.
It’s also true, even if it’s not sin for someone else.
For me? There’s a reason why I don’t gamble.
For most of us, gambling is innocent entertainment. Good for you. Thank you for supporting our bingo night.
But for me? It wouldn’t take long for gambling to get out of hand. It wouldn’t take long for gambling to come between me and God. That’s why gambling is a sin for me. So I avoid it.
That is the truth of sin.
Because anything that is capable of separating you from God? That, for you, is a sin.
If you’re honest, you know what those things are for you. So does God.
God knows everything about you, including how those things that separate you from Him mess with you. How they leave you feeling stuck or anxious. How they leave you fearful or angry. How they leave you empty.
And that is what Reconciliation – confessing our sins – is about. Not because God wants to beat you and me up about our sins.
But because that’s not how God wants you to live. God did not make you to live feeling stuck or anxious, fearful or angry. God did not make you to live empty.
God made you to live joyfully, overflowing in His love and abundance.
The first step to getting there? Let go of the things that are coming between you and God. Let go of your sins.
Push them away from you. By name, hand them over to the God who loves you.
In the Sacrament of Reconciliation, priests are in persona Christi, holy instruments of God’s grace and mercy waiting to be poured out just for you.
Not to blame or shame, but to absolve you and to rejoice with you.
Because that is the secret of Reconciliation. One of the greatest joys on this side of eternity is the feeling in your heart after a good confession.
This Lent, make time for you, for your spiritual health. Take a moment to let go of all of the things that are coming between you and God. Hand over all of your sins. Hold nothing back.
Because the God who loves you too much to let anything come between you and Him, delights in mercy and is waiting with open arms to forgive you.
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